Aligning Our Hearts With Behavior - October 26,2025

Bible Study – Aligning Our Hearts With Our Behavior

Share:  Your highs (something that made you happy) and lows (something that made you sad) this week with others around you or write them down.

The background music of the Hebrew Scriptures holds the notes of the new covenant — a law written in our hearts rather than codified in legal structures — The Spirit poured out, a vision for the appointed time, God with us, a new heaven and a new earth, and a branch from the tree of David — the remnant gathered. We can believe that Jesus heard this cosmic music as he distilled his huge message to the disciples.

 

The promise echoing through the centuries, "I will pour out my spirit on all flesh," rings in Jesus' ears as he tells the disciples a story about the risk in assuming we “have it right.”

 

We have a story about a Pharisee and a tax collector.  The Pharisees were religious rulers who tried very hard to obey all the many rules of their religion.  Tax collectors figured out what people owed and often charged more than they needed to and kept the extra for themselves.

 

 

Opening Prayer: Loving God, thank you for all that you have given us. Help us to remember to be grateful to you and loving to others. Amen. 

 

Please open your Bibles to Luke 18:9-14 and read or read the scriptures below.

Luke 18:9-14

The Parable of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector

To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everyone else, Jesus told this parable: 10 “Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. 11 The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other people—robbers, evildoers, adulterers—or even like this tax collector. 12 I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.’

13 “But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, ‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner.’

14 “I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”

Questions: (Answers at the bottom of the page.)

  • Who are the Pharisees? 
  • Why do you think they were so sure they had obeyed all the rules? 
  • What could be wrong about just following rules? 
  • What did tax collectors do? 
  • What was different about the tax collector's prayer? 
  • How else could we say these words: justified, exalted, humbled?
  • How else could we say verse 14 in words we might use with our friends?

 

Bible Memory Verse: Luke 18:14 - “I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”

 

Click here for the young learner’s lesson.

 

Videos (Click on url)

Stories:

The Parable of the Pharisee and Tax Collector: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YWK2edNPPXE

Parable Video The Pharisee The Tax Collector Luke 18: 9-14: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2JnkGyw2sFY

Gospel of Luke Summary: A Complete Animated Overview (Part 2) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=26z_KhwNdD8

Song: I Just Wanna Be A Sheephttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rzZDU4tFuKs   or  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I8GLj2Z7M6o&list=RDI8GLj2Z7M6o&start_radio=1

 

Activities:

Journal:  Brainstorm what being a Pharisee today might look like. What would it be like if you were a Pharisee? (Example: I got all my homework done, didn't waste any time playing with my little sister or helping Dad rake the leaves. I did what I am supposed to do.)

Brainstorm what being a Tax Collector today might look like? What would it be like if you were a Tax Collector? (Example: I blew it. My homework is not done. I did not help Dad rake the leaves. I took things that were not mine. I am a slob.)

After you have ideas for both a Pharisee and a Tax Collector, create a modern day story. You can paint it, or write about it as if it were a newspaper.  Write or draw it in your journal.

Humble Rock:  Find a smooth rock, decorate or paint it.  Write “I WANT TO BE HUMBLE” or “HUMILTY” from Luke 18:14.  After it dries, put it on your dresser. 

Prayer:  Picture a person who has had a triumph: won the 5k race, sank the winning shot in hockey, got the lead in the school play. Help this imaginary person compose a prayer that shows the person is grateful.

Now, compose a prayer for the person who blew it: didn't do the homework, left the dog outside all night, whatever.

 

The Pharisee and the Tax Collector - Crossword:  https://sermons4kids.com/activities/the-pharisee-and-the-tax-collector-2

The Pharisee and the Tax Collector – Decoder:  https://sermons4kids.com/activities/the-pharisee-and-the-tax-collector-3

The Pharisee and the Tax Collector - Word Search:  https://sermons4kids.com/activities/the-pharisee-and-the-tax-collector-7

The Pharisee and the Tax Collector – Fill in the Blank:    https://sermons4kids.com/activities/the-pharisee-and-the-tax-collector-9

The Pharisee and the Tax Collector – Word Shape:  https://sermons4kids.com/activities/the-pharisee-and-the-tax-collector-10

  

 

Prayer:  “Thank you, God, that we can come to you when we have done something bad and know you will forgive us. Help us to remember to say thank you for all of our accomplishments, for your forgiveness, and for all you have given to us. Amen.” 

 

Answers to the Questions:

  • Who are the Pharisees? (The people who were trying to keep all the rules and make sure everyone else kept all the rules.)
  • Why do you think they were so sure they had obeyed all the rules? (When a person spends all their time making sure they are following the rules, they can usually follow the rules.)
  • What could be wrong about just following rules? (You could miss what other people need.)
  • What did tax collectors do? (They collected taxes from people to pay the government. Some of the tax collectors collected more than the people owed and kept the extra.)
  • What was different about the tax collector's prayer? (He noticed he had done something wrong, felt sorry about it, and told God he was sorry.)
  • How else could we say these words: justified, exalted, humbled? (Some possible paraphrases: justified: cleaned up our act; exalted: able to talk with God; humbled: noticing that God is in charge.)
  • How else could we say verse 14 in words we might use with our friends? (Some hints: We are in a much better place when we put God first and not ourselves.)